If you have a dream on your heart, a certain goal that you want to achieve. A niggling in your soul that there is more out there for you, don’t ignore it! Don’t under-estimate how… More
Wow, we are heading into another decade, it sounds massive, so solid, so expectant.
So many things have happened in this past year, let alone the past 10,right?
At the end of the year I love to reflect, take stock and give thanks. To see where I can grow and be open to endless opportunities that await us.
I want to encourage you and want you to pat yourself on the back for all you have achieved in the past 10 years.
This past decade particularly has been quite iconic for me – I was 22 now turning 32 in a few days. I started my adult life in a big city, hundreds of kilometres away from my home. I have learnt that you can only prepare so much for life – you can study hard, be good, do good, go to church, forgive, mess up, learn, repeat the mess up, learn a harder lesson – eat loads, love loads, meet tons of people, battle the flu and other illnesses in between life, work, love and studies.
Don’t forget leaning about finances and dangerous creepy people. I have bought way too many sale items that when I think about it, I didn’t really like but thought it was amazing that I saved money, but in actual fact I really could have owned a luxury wardrobe by now if I put things into perspective.
I spent way too much on time on what others thought.
I did not speak up enough.
I did not ask questions.
I let people get away with disrespecting me.
I did not know how to handle emotion.
I was chaotic, but in a cute way. Almost too sweet that anyone could believe I had a temper. But that’s the thing – we all do.
I supressed true feeling and did know how to process.
I hid myself in clothes, shoes, eating and trying to be the perfect person.
I expected others to make me happy and pick up the pieces around me.
I blamed so many people for my unhappiness and the joy that was stolen through the turmoil of my 20’s.
But then, I realised.. the only person that can change all of this was me.
2016 was a turnasround for me – the transition of knowing that this was not all life in store for me.
So here are the 20 things that I am proud of and you should also consider making a list for yourself too, so you can remember the good things amongst all the hell.
- I always show up
- I am professional, polite and had an incredible work ethic
- I became a homeowner at 24
- I travelled
- I battled sickness and toxic relationships and pushed through
- I set boundaries
- I continue to pray
- I list the things I am grateful for everyday
- I helped people through their difficulties
- I am a good wife (most of the time)
- A reliable and trustworthy friend
- I am a devoted daughter / sister / granddaughter
- I am creative
- I am allowed to laugh and be funny and actually I am a funny person
- I am incredibly intelligent
- I am confidently humble and kind
- I see the good in people and situations
- I am dedicated to making my world a better place
- I am fit and healthy and have healed most of my illnesses through, eating more mindfully, letting go of negative energy and conserving my time
- I am an amazing, brave and involved mummy!
Now list your 20 things!
Remember good always happens amongst the bad – this is life. It’s how we reflect and the power we give the bad over the good that determines our freedom and growth.
Have a kick ass 2020
I love being crafty, the goof kind of course 😊
I made this DIY wreath for out front door with next to nothing.
You will need
- A branch with leaves from your garden
- Red Ribbon
- Red Baubles (I kept these from last years Christmas Crackers)
How to Assemble the Wreath:
Twist the branch int a circle and fix together with the wire.
Finish off with ribbon and baubles and we are done!
This is an incredible DIY gift for friends and family too .
We as parents are really our kids compasses, their encyclopedias of life
Doesn’t this jut blow yourd mind? When a child is born, they honestly are a blank canvas – a beautiful bubbly innocent soul, waiting to absorb and learn and grow. Every idea, opinion, feeling / response they will develop as a belief that they will firmly believe.
How profound is this – “You are not what you think you are —–pause— but—what you think , YOU ARE!
So as parents, if we raise our kids to believe they are good, they are conquerors, they are loved, supported, they are allowed to make mistakes, they can be anything they set their minds too – THEY WOULD BELIEVE that they are all these things and more.
Fact: by the age of 3, their sense of self locks in and become a fundamental part of their make up. This sense of who they are becomes their reality.
So love on your kids. Break the mould of what can and can’t be done. We are their everything- lets make them everything they can be!
More than anything lets make them feel safe, love and accepted. This will give them a sense of security for the rest of their lives.
Everyday is a step closer to fulfilling your dreams.
That sounds a bit airy fairy, right?!
When we talk about pursuing happiness. Making our dreams come true or following a path to find our passion, others may scoff at us thinking we are living in a false sense of reality or yes a “dreamland”. Dreaming is often considered childlike and too whimsical for us adults to do because life is hard as it what is …we just have to get on with what we need to make this life work.
The sad reality is that living with no hope or passion leads to a sad and depressed life. Yes we do have to just get on each day but it does not always have to be a drag.
We do have to make a living and make ends meet. We do have to wake up each day and get into the routine of chores, work, home, deadlines, difficult relationships, hardships, health challenges, loss, grief, anxiety – Life can be one hard, disappointing, monotonous and dull event after the other.
The powerful truth is that we have the ability to change our approach to life’s hardships and monotony. The way to do this is by realising that we have the power to change our mindset and most of all our heartset to life and what it gives us.
I have figured out that one of the most effective ways to do this is to start the day by claiming and noticing all the good things in your life (even though you may not be able to see it immediately) start with small things – Make a list of these things.
By being mindful of all the good things in your life and the wonderful things around you – you start appreciating life instead of just existing in it. You will see that by having a sense of gratitude and living with eyes open to blessings that have come your way will bring with it elements of joy and calm in your day that relaxes you and will spike your happiness.
Being a dreamer should come naturally to us, we were designed this way… to have a child-like sense of curiosity and wonder. To look at each day as an opportunity, but life has a sneaky way of dwindling this ability.
All I can say is that if you don’t have a dream in your heart life is always harder. Start small and finally you will dream big! Your dreams are your little seeds of magic that you can sow into your life that will start to transform the amount of fun and satisfaction you have. We all have the power to change the course of our life – one dreams and belief at a time! Make it, shape it and believe in it.
Oprah said that “The biggest adventure you can have is to live the life of your dreams”. I sure do want to have some great adventures, how about you?